Nigerian rapper and social commentator, Erigga Agarivbie, popularly known as Erigga, has stirred controversy online after declaring that polygamy causes more harm than good, particularly to women and children.
The outspoken rapper made the statement in a post on his social media platform, where he argued that many men who practice polygamy do so out of ego and societal pressure rather than genuine capacity to maintain peace and balance in multiple households.
“Polygamy hurts women and kids the most,” Erigga wrote. “Many men go into it for the wrong reasons. The women end up competing for attention, and the children grow up in confusion.”
The “Motivation” crooner, known for his blunt takes on social issues, noted that emotional neglect and rivalry are common outcomes in polygamous homes, often leaving long-lasting scars on children.
His remarks quickly ignited heated reactions on social media, with many users divided on the issue. While some supported his stance, praising him for addressing a sensitive cultural topic, others accused him of undermining African traditions that view polygamy as normal and even honorable.
A user on X (formerly Twitter) commented, “Erigga is right. Many men can’t even handle one home properly, talk less of two or three.” Another countered, “Polygamy isn’t the problem; irresponsibility is. Some men manage it successfully.”
Social analysts have noted that Erigga’s statement touches on an important conversation about changing family structures and gender dynamics in modern African societies.
Cultural critic Dr. Ifeoma Oduah told The Daily Beam that while polygamy remains legal and practiced in parts of Nigeria, “the emotional and economic realities of today make it increasingly unsustainable.”
“We are in a time when women seek equality and mental stability,” she said. “Erigga’s statement reflects the growing awareness that polygamy often fails to meet these modern expectations.”
Despite the backlash, Erigga doubled down on his opinion, urging men to prioritize emotional responsibility over tradition.
“You can’t claim to love peace and still build a home on competition and envy,” he added.
The debate continues to trend online, with Nigerians weighing in on whether polygamy should be redefined, reformed, or rejected altogether in today’s society.
